Should love like this?

Hui and Rong fell in love with each other. His lower body became completely paralyzed. At that time, Rong was at her 25 ---the most wonderful golden age in her life which was like a flower in the blossom. Some acquaintances then kindly proposed that though Hui has been disabled, he was carefree and could live by himself. The son has been three years old. However, Rong was still so young and so pretty, how about the two getting divorced?

Hui understood very well that Rong was graceful and elegant, saint and even proud. Rong won't get a lover by herself, so Hui was determined to help her find one. Although it is vicious and even sort of ridiculous, what shall Hui do?

I feel a little bit sad and powerless when I finish this story of tragedy. A man unfortunately become paralyzed by accident, on account of heavy psychology pressure in his mind, his disabled made him lose confidence, made him found he was unqualified for his wife. In order to help his wife to live a relatively comfortable life, he came up with an idea which search for a lover for his wife. Maybe he was reluctant to leave his wife and get divorce with her, or maybe his wife was unwilling to leave him. Anyhow, I don't know what kind of reason made him thought out such a ridiculous method. Is it a useful and effective way to solve the problem?

Firstly, Rong and Hui fall love with each other and are conjugal couples, true love only consists in the two own. If find a lover, they three live together face by face, I guess that they can't talent with each other in the run, and then the true love also die away. If Hui is a true man and would like to make sacrifices for her wife, he may divorced with her, therefore, Rong can find anther husband with her own and can live a happy life.

Furthermore, for a tradition and heavy family woman, it is hardly to accept such ludicrous arrange, Hui understood very well that Rong was graceful and elegant, saint and even proud, she won't get a lover by herself.

Therefore, in my opinion, the leading character was neither a wretch nor a true man. If he is a true man, he will take on responsibility for how to treat his wife and son better and lead a better life even though he was disabled to a certain degree. But there still many things he could do to change his present situation, otherwise, keep a gentle and peaceful mind to get along with his wife and son, never pay attention to the other's eyes. If he is a true man, maybe he should divorce with his wife bravely and decidedly, in that condition, he won't be a burden for his wife.

All in all, life whispers in your soul and speaks to your heart. Sometimes, when you don't have the time to listen... Life throws a brick at your head. It's your choice: Listen to the whispers of your soul or wait for the brick.

Sanmanth

Copyright by Tina Anne.

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